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... ~~~~~~~~~~~~Parenting Skills
Parenting skills
Honestly, some people's parenting skills truly need some adjustments. I have witnessed so many things in public places that make me think that some people should be tested before they are allowed to reproduce. There are classes out there that teach basic parenting skills but not enough of people enroll in them. It is almost as if when you have a baby, they send you home from the hospital without the faintest clue as to what you are supposed to do with this child. Perhaps a manual should be written and given to parents when they leave the hospital. Anyone can be a parent but not everyone has the parenting skills required to raise a child.
Many parents' parenting skills come from their own experiences in growing up. They pass down the same values and traditions that their parents instilled in them. I have had two young clients in my office who were both parents before the age of 18. Neither of these individuals had the first clue as to what kind of parenting skills they should have. Interestingly enough, both of those individuals had been born to young parents as well. Their young parents lacked the values, knowledge and parenting skills to raise their children as properly as they should have. One of those children had been primarily raised on the streets because their young parents could not have cared less what he was doing. It is a miracle he didn't end up in jail or dead. At the age of 16, a girl came to him to announce that she was pregnant. Suddenly, he was the one who was in need of some common sense and parenting skills.
My other client gave birth when she was 17. Her mother didn't even know that she was pregnant and had no interest in helping to raise her grandchild when she had barely even cared to raise her own daughter. My client is now struggling to finish school and raise a child. While some parenting skills are merely common sense, some people truly lack that common sense. This holds true especially if they never had parental figures that demonstrated common sense for them. You've heard people say that children are a reflection of their parents and there is a great amount of truth to that. Parenting skills are the same way. A parent will reflect the parenting skills that their parents showed to them. Of course, this does not hold true for everyone. There are people who break out of the cycle and I have nothing but praise for them. What is ever so important is that before becoming a parent, make sure you have the common sense parenting skills that are needed to raise your child. Never be afraid to ask someone for advice or answers. Your child will thank you for it. So will the rest of the world.
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... ~~~~~~~~~~~~HIV Information and Pregnancy
Are you sexually active? This is a question that every human being should ask themselves. We all should know by now that being sexually active is a huge responsibility these days. With the plethora of STDs circulating worldwide and the epidemic concerning teen pregnancy, you'd think that most people would avoid sexual contact altogether. However, things only seem to be getting worse. Probably the most frightening of concerns in more contemporary times is AIDS. If you haven't heard of this STD for some bizarre reason, it's basically the result of the HIV virus. Across the world, people are becoming more educated about AIDS. The fatal illness is being explained in schools across America. If you have not yet acquired your HIV information, it's time to jump on the bandwagon. This one is deadly, folks.
HIV information is imperative for us all in this dangerous, sexually active society we all share. If you're not properly informed, then you may be at risk. The fact is, casual sex has gotten way out of hand. Too many individuals are venturing out and literally having sexual relations with people they don't even know; and the sad part is they aren't even taking proper precautions. If you have received a dose of HIV information, then you probably already know that condoms are a MUST when it comes to casual sex. Unless you're in a monogamous relationship or are married, you'd better be taking necessary precautions. The AIDS epidemic is already spreading out of control. This horrific affliction will ruin your life. The prime thing you should know about AIDS is there's no cure, and it does result in death. Fortunately anyone can find a deluge of HIV information online. You can easily hop into cyberspace and get the lowdown on HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. For those who don't already know, the HIV virus essentially destroys your immune system. Obviously this is a problem since our immune systems are what fight of any sickness and disease. Once your immune system is broken down, AIDS ensues.
If you are looking for HIV information, but have no idea where to start; it's as easy as punching in the key words on Goggle, or Yahoo. The local library is also a great source for HIV information if you do not have access to a PC of Mac. It's crucial to get informed today. It could save your life.
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... ~~~~~~~~~~~~Due Date Calendar
Due Date Calculator
So you just found out you’re expecting. The first question you’ll want an answer to (if you don’t already know) is when did it happen? You may want to use a due date calculator to figure out exactly where you are in your pregnancy. Some women know the exact moment of conception, either because it was a planned pregnancy or manipulated by scientific processes, such as during in vitro fertilization or other type of assisted procedure. Other women know exactly when conception occurred because they have had a limited number of encounters, leaving little room for doubt. Once you know the date of conception, you can use the due date calculator to find out the tentative date for delivery of your special arrival.
Due date calculators can be found on many sites on the web, and most only require you to enter the last day of your last menstrual cycle. Once you have entered this date, the due date calculator will compute how many weeks pregnant you are, and the approximate date you will deliver. A pregnancy calendar is also nice to have, because it shows the various stages of development the fetus progresses through during each of the three trimesters. From the moment of conception, momentous changes occur as the egg becomes a fertilized embryo and then a tiny developing fetus. By the time many women find out that they are pregnant, the fetus is well on its way to being a completely formed little human. Women may have no symptoms of pregnancy until they miss a menstrual cycle, which may be the first or second cycle after conception.
If a pregnancy is suspected, a home pregnancy test can confirm or deny your suspicions rather quickly. Once you know you are pregnant, you should call and schedule an appointment with an obstetrician, who will confirm that you are indeed pregnant (unless of course it’s obvious!), and calculate your due date by using a pregnancy wheel or due date calculator. If there is any discrepancy between the due date calculator and the physical exam, dates can be better confirmed with an ultrasound, which can be performed easily in the obstetrician’s office. The size of the fetus should correspond with the number of weeks that have passed since conception, which should also correspond with the due date calculator. If the development of the fetus is ahead or behind where it should be, then the date of conception is not correct, and neither is the date of delivery according to the due date calculator. If menstrual cycles are irregular, then the due date calculator will be less accurate, since ovulation does not occur regularly.
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